Swank advice Be a traveller not a tourist
I personally prefer the relaxing type if holiday, the one where you sit by the pool and work on the tan, makes some new friends, enjoy the local fare and see something you haven’t seen. As the life of a lounge lothario is all about pleasures,luxury and exotic experience travel is one of the most important things you can do. I highly suggest you become a traveler and not a tourist. The difference between a tourist and a traveler is that the traveler goes to a place without any preconceptions, whereas the tourist already decided on how he’s going to experience it. The traveler has an open mind and lets the place happen to him. The tourist brings with him his own environment and expectations, thereby diluting the experience.
So my Swank advice to you as lounge lotharios is to go and purchase a ticket to a far away exotic land and be a traveler not a tourist